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Sunday, December 28, 2008

FREDDY BARBOZA


Born: 30 November 1930
Died: 28 December 2008
REMEMBERING MR. FREDRICK CHARLES BARBOZA

It is with great sadness that I learned about the death of my father-in-law, Mr. Freddy Barboza, after a long illness. He passed away in Parra, Goa, today, at 78 years of age. He has been a loving husband to his wife, Benedicta, father to 4 daughters, 1 son, grandfather of 11, and a great-grandfather of one.

My first meeting with him was in the U.A.E. in 1974, having been introduced to me by his eldest daughter, Edna. I guess he liked me because he let me marry his daughter one year later! And I instantly felt without any doubt that here was one good man.

I remember the days when my wife and I worked in Dubai and our children were in boarding school in India. Mr. Barboza tirelessly made all the travel arrangements during the 1980’s to drop and pick our kids from the airport when they came to spend their Christmas Holidays with us. He was very fond of all his grandchildren.

Actor, composer and lyricist in Konkani tiatr in Bombay, Mr. Freddy Barboza retired in Goa 18 years ago. Besides being an actor in Konkani tiatr in Bombay at an early age in the fifties and sixties, he also acted in the Konkani film 'Boglant'. He has been an inspiration to many younger singers and actors of Konkani stage of today. I once witnessed at a 'tiatr' when he personally handed a cash reward to an upcoming singer, soon after this singer had finished singing his own composition on stage. Such was his love for the Konkani theatre.


Whenever we went to Bombay or Goa on a vacation, he would invite us to see tiatr along with him, and during the interval would always take me back-stage to meet some of his fellow artists like Prem Kumar, C. Alvares, Jacinto Vaz, M. Boyer, Remmie Colaco, Shalini, Antonette and Ophelia, proudly introducing me to these actors as his ‘eldest son-in-law’, and very often giving me the undue credit of being a great photographer, artist and a hi-fi and sound expert.

He owned Fredrick Travels in the 1970’s and 1980’s in Bombay, from where he recruited people for employment in the Gulf. He also owned a Car Rental Company.
Besides having a full-time business of his own, his love for Konkani never ceased. He dedicated most of his spare time acting in Konkani dramas, composing Konkani songs, writing lyrics, producing and successfully releasing 2 music-cassette albums in the early 1990’s, titled 'Juliana' and 'Maria' which were big hits. In the late 1990's he did roles in tele-films like 'Mogachi Faxi' and 'Suttka'.
Incidentally, he had often been seen and it was also known to his family, relatives and friends that he wrote lyrics on a small note-book that he always carried with him while he travelled by bus to work at Firestone in Bombay in his early years.

I always remember him as a very busy man and a methodical worker in Bombay and in Goa. He was never idle. An early morning riser, he meticulously made notes of everything that he had to do during the day. Sometimes I would see him writing lyrics, and at other times I would hear him hum a tune or sing a verse into a portable mini tape-recorder. He was so talented and versatile that he could compose impromptu and dedicate a song at the drop of a hat to any one celebrating a big day or any occasion.
After having chosen to live a semi-retired life in Goa, he frequently staged Konkani 'tiatr' (plays) in Mapusa, and had one especially dedicated for charity towards St.Anne’s Church, Parra, in the early 1990’s.

I have seen him hiring a taxi and then attach the bill-board advertisement to the back of it, fit loudspeakers on its roof, and go around Mapusa town and the by-roads and lanes through the country-side announcing: 'Tiatr' 'Tiatr' over the portable PA system and distributing flyers. I had once the opportunity and pleasure of tossing out these bright multi-coloured leaflets to passers-by through the rear side window of the taxi, making brief stops at the various 'tinttos' (market places) in Siolim, Anjuna, Arpora, Saligao and Parra for refreshments. After all was done, he would treat me to a beer for helping him toss out the flyers and for accompanying him on his publicity rounds.

He worked very hard bringing up his family, and spared no pains to put food on the table. From humble beginnings when he used a bicycle as a means of transportation and later graduating to a motor-bike, he moved on successfully in his business through mere perseverance, and succeeded in owning a fleet of cars that included a Chevrolet Impala in Bombay.

One of the things that I remember is that he loved to ride his motor-bike which he always kept in a pristine condition. In his younger days he was full of adventure, having ridden his bike from Bombay to Goa via Pune and Kolhapur. His driving ability and judgment always impressed me, specially negotiating and maneuvering through traffic. My first trip in his car from the airport to his house in Bombay, with his daughter - my wife, Edna, is one to remember!


 He rode his bike
 and drove his car
 until the age of 74.
 Just like a pro!
Words are not enough to express our grief in his passing away. But we will keep his fond memories forever to cherish.


Tony Fernandes

Canada


12 comments:

Unknown said...

What a clear picture you have painted for me Dad. I will always remember sitting on his motorbike on the way to school and holding on for dear life, always buying me my favourite chocolates on the way to school and of course closing our eyes when any "adult" parts came on at the movies.

R.I.P Nana

Anonymous said...

Tony, remember the hit song "Happy Go Lucky Man!" which we sang (sometimes partly), at almost all our family gatherings? Someone did sing a line or two at the Christmas gathering at your home, last week.

Anonymous said...

Thank you Tony for bringing back precious memories of my dad. He was very fond of you and appreciated your love for both him and my mum.

Growing up I remember how he always wanted to give us the best and keep us happy. He took us for all the Konkani dramas, Marathi and English Plays, movies and even other shows. I guess I've inherited his sense of humour, his "Joie de vivre" the zest for life, entertaining people, spreading joy and living each moment to the fullest. Dad always taught us to be polite and mindful of our manners. He was always well dressed and neat and our house was always clean and tidy since mum cleaned all the time.

When we were young he arranged violin lessons for us at home and since I loved dancing he sent me for Indian Classical dancing classes. He was very proud of both Cynthia and myself performing his songs on stage in Konkani Dramas, when we were only 8 and 10 years old. Thanks to my dad my experience in theatre at a young age has helped me to be confident and achieve my goals and dreams.

My friends remember dad's songs "I'm a happy go lucky Man" and "Listen Listen" which he sang at all the parties. Cynthia and myself had planned to sing and record all his songs to send it to him to remind him of the good old days. In my heart I always wished he would get better and we could bring him and mum to Canada, but it wasn't meant to be, and now he has gone to a better place where there is no more pain and suffering.

Being such an active man it must have been very difficult for him to be confined to the bed these last couple of years. Mum often mentioned how he kept saying sorry to her for giving her trouble. He was loosing his memory but did not loose his wit and humour. He always made funny comments when we spoke to him. Every time mum passed the phone to him, we could hear him asking who is on the line and the kids names, then accordingly he would talk loudly "Hello Dorothy, how is Francis, Niku boy and Manda" and then he would say "When are you taking me to Canada". I always said as soon as you get well dad and he replied "I'm ready right now, I can talk, walk and run" !!!!!!!!!!

We were very happy when we all spoke to him on Christmas day, he was in very high spirits even without having any !! So when I got the call on my cell phone, driving home from a party at 02:00 AM on the 401 Highway, it was a big shock. I had always hoped that I could see him before he died. He is gone now and all we have are his memories.

And in the end, it’s not the years in your life that count, It’s the life in your years.
Live life to the fullest 'cause tomorrow may be too late.

God Bless
Dorothy Soares - Dec. 29, 2008, Mississauga, Canada.

Anonymous said...

My Dad Stanilaus Thea Pinto and Uncle Freddy were best of friends during their tiatr days. Had my Dad lived longer, I'm sure they would've continued to be great friends. Our heartfelt condolence to the family.
Sheila and Roy Castelino

Anonymous said...

We fondly remember Uncle Fred as a very talented singer/performer and ''best buddy'' to my late dad Stanilaus Pinto. He will be greatly missed. May he rest in peace. We are sorry for your loss.
Syra, Steven & Nigel Castelino
Chicago, USA

Unknown said...

Sincere condolences to all the family members of Mr. Freddy Barboza. We did not know your dad, but reading about him paints us a vivid picture of the loving husband, father, and grandfather he was to all of you. We convey our deepest sympathies to Mrs. Barboza that God may give her the strength to overcome her grief and loss of someone so dear to her. May his soul rest in peace.

Joe, Auriole, Katie & Nicholas

Anonymous said...

Tony, what a wonderful memoir and tribute to your father in law. He lived life to its fullest and has left many special memories that will continue to warm your hearts. Our heartfelt condolences. You are all in our prayers. Vasco, Blossom, Ryan, Lindsay and Lauren - Auggie and Angela.

Anonymous said...

Dear Tony,

Your exquisite skill as a fine artist gleams through the deft strokes in which you render your late father-in-law so beautifully.

To have the love of a beautiful woman, and her father, is indeed to be doubly blessed. Would that we were all so fortunate.

May your lives be enriched by the treasured memories of the time you shared with this wonderfully talented and accomplished man.

Francis.

Anonymous said...

Mrs. Barboza, Edna, Lourdes, Dorothy, Cynthia,Jude our deepest sympathy to all of you and the rest of the family. From all that's said about your dad, seems he was a great man who not only brought up wonderful children, but has left a legacy of fond memories to be cherished for generations. May his soul rest in peace.
Love & prayers
Joaquim, Rosanna, Jervis & Gabrielle

Edward Verdes said...

Every year and every month Tiatr Academy of Goa organises a special programme, ‘Somplolea Tiatristancho Ugddas’ to remember the late Tiatr artistes who were born in a particular month and are no more with us today and their contribution in the field of tiatr. Late Freddy Barboza will also be remembered.
This programme will be held on Monday, 14th November 2016 at 4:30 p.m. at the Black Box, Ravindra Bhavan, Fatorda Margao.
I have the audio cassette 'Juliana' which was produced by Barboza Creations,but am looking out for the 2nd cassette 'Maria'. Not sure anyone has it?
Thanks
Edward Verdes

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